Not really on topic in terms of the thread, or your call to make, to be fair. It just comes across as exclusionary and dismissive, in my view. Because, you're trying to negate their arguments through the use of this tack.I didn't tell them that D&D wasn't for them, I did the suggest that other systems might be better thing.
Sure. But it's the constant insistence that there is a systemic problem with group/table dynamics caused by how the system works that needs to be addressed within the community of D&D players that leads me to believe that @Chaosmancer needs would be better served with a different system.