ivocaliban
Explorer
I suppose I'm a coddler, but I have my reasons for it. I personally feel that the idea of D&D is to have fun and to tell a story. When you think of most books and movies, they wouldn't be very interesting if the lead characters died in chapter three or the first act. Sure you can just roll up another character, but stories don't generally work if you're killing the lead and reintroducing someone else every fifty pages. Furthermore, I feel that merciless DMs breed players who only go by the numbers (i.e. powergamers) which leads to a very narrow vein of gaming.
Recently my coddling has a more obvious purpose in that I only have one PC. If that PC bites it...then the game is over. This doesn't mean that the player uses his character with reckless abandon, because if he did then I'd have no problem with letting him die. However, you could say that Pelor's watching over him and that random events aren't going to kill him outright. Some may say it treads on realism, but so do the vast majority of fantasy novels. In other words, either Fafhrd and the Gray Mouser were powergamers or they had a powerful deity looking after them (in this case Fritz Leiber). I tend to prefer the latter.
Recently my coddling has a more obvious purpose in that I only have one PC. If that PC bites it...then the game is over. This doesn't mean that the player uses his character with reckless abandon, because if he did then I'd have no problem with letting him die. However, you could say that Pelor's watching over him and that random events aren't going to kill him outright. Some may say it treads on realism, but so do the vast majority of fantasy novels. In other words, either Fafhrd and the Gray Mouser were powergamers or they had a powerful deity looking after them (in this case Fritz Leiber). I tend to prefer the latter.