Ruin Explorer
Legend
I haven't backed anywhere near as many, but also had two that never delivered and I kind of just forgot ever existed. I will say with both though, I don't think it's just people "losing their minds", I think that sometimes the messages about not delivering can really, really make things worse. Particularly when you see a creator/team keep stringing people along, then go silent, then someone else comes to essentially string people along. Kickstarter is a speculative business in most cases, unless it's a very established creator - particularly a company - with an obviously well-scope product (in which case it is essentially a pre-order), one has to treat it as hope rather than certainty. But as such, it's much better when you get a solid "It ain't happening, and also we spent your money so can't do refunds" than "Ohhhhh yeah there are issues right now but it'll be just a little longer" x 5 followed by radio silence followed by "Hi im not the creator im a friend of theirs, they're not having a great time but this project might still continue later!" - which is a bit of a pattern.Out of all of those, there are only two I don't expect to ever fulfill. Both are cases where I backed them to show support to the creators and while it would be nice to actually get the rewards, I don't lose sleep about it. Though it's crazy to read some of the comments where people have lost their minds. Both are cases where the creators just got overwhelmed by the response to their project and just couldn't handle it, but some people are just vicious about the situation.
Just say "Yo sorry, it's over dog, money spent, not going to be able to do refunds, forget about it!", because most people will!