I agree there is a sayingThe internet, but also the objective of having a player-centric edition in 3e was a real catastrophe. It took 2 editions to put the reigns firmly in the DM's hands where they belong (by going through a "referee" first approach in 4e), and even now, we still have players in 5e coming to tables or forums with a "but the rules say ... so my DM is a bad DM"... sigh
"You go to war with the army ready for the last war" or something like that... each edition seems to be trying to undo things from the one before, and in 3e case they wanted MORE player agency for good or ill...