Again, a little more "tastes may vary" would probably help your posts out a little bit. Or a lot a bit. I dunno. Just throwing that out there.
With respect, Jameson, with my overall body of work, I think you'll find I'm already pretty solidly on the side of "don't speak for everyone" and "there is no One True Way", and so on. I rather frequently argue for inclusion of playstyles that I don't my self regularly partake in, and frequently state that so long as everyone is having a good time, your game is going well.
So, really, I think you're teaching your grandmother to suck eggs, as they say. If you wish to continue this line of discussion, please take it to PM or e-mail, as my posting habits are not really germaine to the thread topic.