Croth, you're right. We're not playing D&D. We're playing a D20 fantasy game, which resembles D&D in many ways. But I'm Clear about it NOT being D&D. I break traditions and assumptions in D&D all the time, and wouldn't really enjoy it if I couldn't.
The D&D idea is fun once in a while, but its not really what I want for my game. I'd prefer something even
Lesssimilar, but my players wouldn't
But we compromise. We play a D20 game, which is D&D like in some ways, and not in others. Our Magic system is different, both in rules (EOM), and in the way it works (Story). We use Grim and Gritty, and that chances the game's feel a lot.
But I agree with your point.. When you start modifying things like that, it's not the same game. And I agree with that strongly. I've played a decent number of 3e games outside of this one, and it can be fun.. But it's not what we're going for here.
I've read someone's sig, which said that people who want a low-power D&D game should "Play something else". We're doing exactly that.. We're just using a lot of D20 rules in it.
Colin "D&D is fun, but not right for This particular game" Davis