I still am not sure about the grapple check going down by 5 or whatever (the whatever in case of flurry of blows). I was hoping you'd throw in more on that, and if you felt you have then obviously not enough to clear it up for me 
Waldo-
If my character, a monk, did the following what would you say, in terms of logical assertions to the rules we can understand. He has a BAB of +6/+1, and a grapple of +12. He is a monk so can flurry and is 5th level so the flurries are at -1. So, without adding in strength his BAB could be +5/+5/+0. He has the improved grapple feat.
So, let's say his first attack of a flurry is to do a touch attack to start a grapple. He hits and then there is an exchange of grapple checks, me at +12, the other guy/beast/whatever at its grapple number. I succeed and get a hold and do my unarmed damage.
Next, I want to do my two other "attacks" as grapple checks to do damage. So I get two now, right? At what grapple check? +11 (+12, minus 1 from flurry), and then +6 (5 off of the +11) one? Or since most people would probably rule that an animal with improved grab or whatever on say that on whatever hit eventually gets a chance to do improved grab would get its normal grapple check. That would lead me to think I get two more at +12, versus the other persons full normal grapple check. The amount is determined by BAB, but the actual check is a static value used to do an opposed roll.
And finally for the record. I don't wanna change into a octopus, I find it cheesy, speaking of cheesy Daniel, and would rather be epic and cool and just fight the beastie with my normal body.
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Waldo-
If my character, a monk, did the following what would you say, in terms of logical assertions to the rules we can understand. He has a BAB of +6/+1, and a grapple of +12. He is a monk so can flurry and is 5th level so the flurries are at -1. So, without adding in strength his BAB could be +5/+5/+0. He has the improved grapple feat.
So, let's say his first attack of a flurry is to do a touch attack to start a grapple. He hits and then there is an exchange of grapple checks, me at +12, the other guy/beast/whatever at its grapple number. I succeed and get a hold and do my unarmed damage.
Next, I want to do my two other "attacks" as grapple checks to do damage. So I get two now, right? At what grapple check? +11 (+12, minus 1 from flurry), and then +6 (5 off of the +11) one? Or since most people would probably rule that an animal with improved grab or whatever on say that on whatever hit eventually gets a chance to do improved grab would get its normal grapple check. That would lead me to think I get two more at +12, versus the other persons full normal grapple check. The amount is determined by BAB, but the actual check is a static value used to do an opposed roll.
And finally for the record. I don't wanna change into a octopus, I find it cheesy, speaking of cheesy Daniel, and would rather be epic and cool and just fight the beastie with my normal body.
Tellerve