The-Magic-Sword
Small Ball Archmage
I think the problem is that you could be said to be roleplaying during all of those activities because a roleplaying game is in the business of emulating experiences through play, and those all involve emulating roles through play. The fact that we wouldn't call them roleplaying games isn't really abrogating that, in fact most video game histories I've taken in have primarily classified the video game RPG as the lineage of games based off Dungeons and Dragons and spun off from there, so its somewhat circular-- in the end I wouldn't consider that to be a commentary on some essential truth of the thing its discussing, and even if it were, its probably isn't the substance of roleplaying that its referring to, but a historical lineage.Let's not get bogged down in the single example though. The point of the example is that there are a pretty broad swath of games that we wouldn't call role playing games - Magic The Gathering, Warhammer 40K (the tabletop wargame, not the RPG obviously), Halo, PUBG, etc. If our definition is so broad that it sweeps up all these games that no one would ever call RPG's, then the definition is too broad.
It's like an old user here used to claim that RPG's were all puzzle games and nothing but puzzle games. It really doesn't work, even though you can make a pretty good argument about why some puzzle games are RPG's.
Again, it's got nothing to do with gatekeeping. It's about having a useful definition. If I pull up to an RPG night at the FLGS and everyone is playing Catan, I might have a great time because Catan is a great game, but, not exactly what I would classify as an RPG.
Look, honestly, I really am a big tent kind of guy. I do believe that there are a huge variety of games that fit under the umbrella of RPG and will argue until my face falls off that 4e D&D is an RPG.But, at the same time, I don't consider basketball to be an RPG. I get that genre definitions are porous. Sure, that's true. But, not so porous that they become meaningless.
When you play Halo, you take on the role of Master Chief, and the ways the game allows you to interact with the world are ways appropriate to Master Chief, when you play the game well its by playing your Master Chief more like the ideal of Master Chief set up by the game-- a certified super soldier skillfully blasting their way through alien hordes, you are roleplaying, although with a very different emphasis than might be around the table.
Sure enough I've seen plenty of 'our kind' of roleplaying in video games too, especially in MMOs and tacticool military shooters like Planetside or Arma, as well as survival games like Conan Exiles where people pour thousands of hours into the roleplaying. Similarly, you brought up Catan... but RPing is a major way people enjoy the entire 4x strategy genre like in Stellaris or Crusader Kings, and it would not be hard to start RPing in Catan, though you'd probably want to inform the other players, I've done it! I'm actually very prone to roleplaying in games that have thematics. I actually play Magic for the fantasy of dueling super powered magic users, and to me the metagame and the strategy enhances that. I play competitive pokemon to feel immersed in the experience of being a trainer, because its the level of the game that best captures that narrative sense of striving, and the rivalry, and the feeling of making your own way.
I think that this definition is useful because it lets us understand the essential act of roleplaying as it exists in all the different things it appears, the purpose of the definition isn't to delineate what is and is not a roleplaying game, but to understand the act of roleplaying itself wherever it appears, and then bring that back to learn lessons that enhance our play of the games. Its a definition that explores the concept of roleplaying rather than constraining it, it shows me that I roleplay through by embracing the game's mechanics, rather than by fighting them. There's a harmony to be had and richness of immersion if you don't see the metagame as separate from the roleplaying.