Dr. Harry said:It is the percieved arrogance that what it takes for you to consider someone to be "solidly upper middle class", is to have an individual salary equal to almost twice the median salary that I would say is responsible for the reaction that you are seeing to your posts.
I guess I thought conventions were pretty standard on this. Upper middle class is pretty much 2-4 times median income, with truly wealthy kicking in above that. Heck, I live in a small one-bedroom apartment, drive a 3-year old Pontiac, don't have a lot saved, and still have some hefty student loan payments every month.