Well, I ended up picking up Dawnforge. It's excellent. Like, get me off my lazy Irish-American arse to write a review excellent. I haven't even left the mall(I'm waiting for it to relent at EB so I can go in for my interview) and I've already devoured the book. Now I'm trying to decide between Draconomicon, Complete Warrior, Book of Exalted Deeds, Creature Collection 3, and a few GR paperbacks(like Unholy Warrior's Handbook, which could come in very handy, hehehe, and Bow and Blade).
I recommend Dawnforge to everyone.
And just for the record, the place near me doesn't carry the Book of Elven Fetishism. The owner considers it a "disgusting product designed to cash in on gamers who get slap-happy watching Lodoss."