It doesn't sound like you're having fun *now*.
Does your DM know that you and the monk are not enjoying yourselves?
I'm sure we (the party) know bout the monk. We talk bout it all the time. Last session he should up he just played games on his phone.
As for myself, it's too early for me to tell. I like the unspoken challenge. Once i realize the fight is lost then i'll quit. I got nothing better to do till then.
Do you think agile shield fighter and a ewp is worth the 2 feat slots? I mean my main concern at the moment with the build is stopping chargers, so i was thinking a 1h reach weapon (sword whip, or kasurigama) or getting hold the line.