blackshirt5
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Yeah but this pizza has been sitting on my kitchen table since about 8 pm last night; that's why I'm asking.
Morbidity, is it true what I heard about England?
Morbidity, is it true what I heard about England?
[HIVEMIND] Disorderly, but not nessasarily drunk!
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blackshirt5
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I read somewhere(or heard somewhere, or something) that with parental consent a girl age 16 or 17 can actually star in a pornographic film. Is that true or did I get lied to?
Also, another question: Do people liked winged races in D&D? I'm wavering on including them in my campaign setting.
Also, another question: Do people liked winged races in D&D? I'm wavering on including them in my campaign setting.
Morbidity
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blackshirt5 said:
OMG ... they promised that all the copies of that film had been destroyed!
Seriously blackshirt, I can honestly say that I have no idea ... it's not a fact that has emerged during the 6 months that I have been here.
blackshirt5 said:
Winged races: Personally, I'm not really caring, but one of my GF adores the concept.
blackshirt5
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Morbidity said:
OMG ... they promised that all the copies of that film had been destroyed!
Seriously blackshirt, I can honestly say that I have no idea ... it's not a fact that has emerged during the 6 months that I have been here.
Winged races: Personally, I'm not really caring, but one of my GF adores the concept.
AHA!!! I Thought I recognized the scythe.
You mean you're not a native?
As for AU(as mentioned earlier), I'm gonna hold off till next weekend when I find out whether or not me and the GF are going to Six Flags; if she cancels to go up to her godmother's house I'll be angry with her but then again I'll be able to buy AU; for right now though I've got 135 dollars for the next two weeks so I've gotta hold off, I can afford to expend more than half that(about 80 bucks for AU AND Six Flags) on recreation.
blackshirt5
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OK, I'll ask the Hive, since y'all seem to be older(or at least wiser, Angcuru notwithstanding) than myself, for advice on this situation:
I'm going out with a girl, Beth. I've known her for quite some time(try about 7 years; I originally hung out with her brother, who's my age, and I'm a year older than Beth); she and I have been dating for a few months, but she has this habit that drives me nuts(ok, two of them):
1) She brings up garbage from when we were young; namely, instances that I don't even remember clearly of me and my friend Billy being incredibly cruel to her whenever we hung out with Tommy(her brother); and she gets mad when I point out that mine and Billy's cruelty was well earned, she was a snitch back then, getting the three of us(me, Tom, and Billy) in trouble. This stopped years ago, but she keeps bringing it up whenever she gets mad at me or I at her.
2) She hangs out with people that drive me nuts. I can understand having to spend time around her godmother's son(who's 16, a mere 3 years younger than her, and has a thing for her; did I mention that he keeps telling her that "Andrew sounds like a real arse[hint: not his exact words]" and "well you should be my girlfriend you deserve a nice guy who can afford to spend money on you") because well, it's her godmother's son she kinda has to be nice, although the fact that she won't introduce me to this kid is a bit suspect; but she hangs out sometimes with her brother, who never goes anywhere without his friend Dennis; I remember Dennis from when me and Tommy still hung out together; he's 9 years older than me and hung with us in high school, and I didn't like him then(he's the "Creepy Loser" type of guy). I can't stand the fact that she'll hang out with him, especially since Tom drinks, Dennis drinks, and when she's around Tom, she drinks. And when she drinks she's easily suggestible; last time she got drunk around Dennis and Tom, Tom left the room and left Dennis and Beth alone together and she ended up kissing Dennis. She insists that this was a one-time thing, but it's definitely suspect the fact that she knows this happens when she drinks but I've called her up a few times since and gotten her on the phone a bit tipsy and giggly and, because I know Tom is pretty much attached at the waist to Dennis and he'd(God only knows why) rather have that disease-ridden pervert with his little sister than me, I'm pretty sure Dennis was around; it's making me insane, and I mean "Guitarist from Queens of the Stone Age" insane, not funny haha insane. I know I shouldn't let this stuff bother me but it does.
Advice, anyone? I really needed to get that off my chest.
I'm going out with a girl, Beth. I've known her for quite some time(try about 7 years; I originally hung out with her brother, who's my age, and I'm a year older than Beth); she and I have been dating for a few months, but she has this habit that drives me nuts(ok, two of them):
1) She brings up garbage from when we were young; namely, instances that I don't even remember clearly of me and my friend Billy being incredibly cruel to her whenever we hung out with Tommy(her brother); and she gets mad when I point out that mine and Billy's cruelty was well earned, she was a snitch back then, getting the three of us(me, Tom, and Billy) in trouble. This stopped years ago, but she keeps bringing it up whenever she gets mad at me or I at her.
2) She hangs out with people that drive me nuts. I can understand having to spend time around her godmother's son(who's 16, a mere 3 years younger than her, and has a thing for her; did I mention that he keeps telling her that "Andrew sounds like a real arse[hint: not his exact words]" and "well you should be my girlfriend you deserve a nice guy who can afford to spend money on you") because well, it's her godmother's son she kinda has to be nice, although the fact that she won't introduce me to this kid is a bit suspect; but she hangs out sometimes with her brother, who never goes anywhere without his friend Dennis; I remember Dennis from when me and Tommy still hung out together; he's 9 years older than me and hung with us in high school, and I didn't like him then(he's the "Creepy Loser" type of guy). I can't stand the fact that she'll hang out with him, especially since Tom drinks, Dennis drinks, and when she's around Tom, she drinks. And when she drinks she's easily suggestible; last time she got drunk around Dennis and Tom, Tom left the room and left Dennis and Beth alone together and she ended up kissing Dennis. She insists that this was a one-time thing, but it's definitely suspect the fact that she knows this happens when she drinks but I've called her up a few times since and gotten her on the phone a bit tipsy and giggly and, because I know Tom is pretty much attached at the waist to Dennis and he'd(God only knows why) rather have that disease-ridden pervert with his little sister than me, I'm pretty sure Dennis was around; it's making me insane, and I mean "Guitarist from Queens of the Stone Age" insane, not funny haha insane. I know I shouldn't let this stuff bother me but it does.
Advice, anyone? I really needed to get that off my chest.
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AGGEMAM
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(I had to put on some music to get in the right mood to answer this; the choice falling on Danzig's album Satan's Child 6:66 AM, of course.)
Sounds like you're stuck in the flip side of madly in love heaven, namely insanely jealous hell. Without knowing the people involved I'd say you have to confront her with your concerns. But not just like that. You have to get in a serious discussion with her first, and NEVER bring it up when you're in an argument.
If she doesn't seem to think there is a problem, she obviously don't have the same feelings for you as you do for her. Because if she did she's realise the problem.
Without knowing more of the story, I'd say put her on ice for a while. I know that it's easier said than done. But that's what I'd do in the same position.
I have discovered some things about women the hard way (this might seem generalistic and cruel towards the fairer sex, and it is, but I found it to be axioms you just have to live with):
They like honesty from others, but don't abide by it themselves.
They like to play with your feelings if they know you're feeling something for them, they'll toy with you.
You CAN live without them, if living with them means conprimising yourself.
I'll stop now, but tell me if this is helping, then I'd continue.
EDIT: multible spelling and grammar mistakes, but hey, english IS still my third language.
Sounds like you're stuck in the flip side of madly in love heaven, namely insanely jealous hell. Without knowing the people involved I'd say you have to confront her with your concerns. But not just like that. You have to get in a serious discussion with her first, and NEVER bring it up when you're in an argument.
If she doesn't seem to think there is a problem, she obviously don't have the same feelings for you as you do for her. Because if she did she's realise the problem.
Without knowing more of the story, I'd say put her on ice for a while. I know that it's easier said than done. But that's what I'd do in the same position.
I have discovered some things about women the hard way (this might seem generalistic and cruel towards the fairer sex, and it is, but I found it to be axioms you just have to live with):
They like honesty from others, but don't abide by it themselves.
They like to play with your feelings if they know you're feeling something for them, they'll toy with you.
You CAN live without them, if living with them means conprimising yourself.
I'll stop now, but tell me if this is helping, then I'd continue.
EDIT: multible spelling and grammar mistakes, but hey, english IS still my third language.
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Sniktch
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Hmm, not sure if you want my advice or not, blackshirt, but I'll try, based solely upon what was written and realizing that I may not know all the facts...
1) Eh, not really that big a deal. When someone is mad at you they're going to find something to throw in your face, whether you deserve it or not. My wife reminds me of questionable things I did long before we started dating when she's in one of those moods - I just don't let it bother me. She always apologizes when the mood is passed, and frankly, in my case, I probably deserve some of the comments she makes.
2) This, on the other hand, would be the kicker for me. Again, I don't know the whole story, but are you sure this person is right for you? I see basically two possibilities going on here:
A little jealousy and desire for control on your part, perhaps. How much time is she spending in these other peoples' company? I can't stand some of my wife's friends, but they were her friends before she met me, and I'm not going to keep her from seeing them. Just like she dislikes some fo my buddies but they can still come over, etc.
Someone who is not altogether trustworthy, and maybe not right for you at this stage of your lives. Going on the assumption that the above paragraph plays little or no part in the situation, her behavior is painted in a different light. I can tell you that if my girlfriend had ever behaved like that in another man's company, and then continued to drink and hang out with him despite my feelings on the subject, I would show her the door and end my association with her.
My advice would really be to think long and hard about the relationship, where its going, and if its right for you. My two cents, hope you find them at least somewhat helpful.
1) Eh, not really that big a deal. When someone is mad at you they're going to find something to throw in your face, whether you deserve it or not. My wife reminds me of questionable things I did long before we started dating when she's in one of those moods - I just don't let it bother me. She always apologizes when the mood is passed, and frankly, in my case, I probably deserve some of the comments she makes.
2) This, on the other hand, would be the kicker for me. Again, I don't know the whole story, but are you sure this person is right for you? I see basically two possibilities going on here:
A little jealousy and desire for control on your part, perhaps. How much time is she spending in these other peoples' company? I can't stand some of my wife's friends, but they were her friends before she met me, and I'm not going to keep her from seeing them. Just like she dislikes some fo my buddies but they can still come over, etc.
Someone who is not altogether trustworthy, and maybe not right for you at this stage of your lives. Going on the assumption that the above paragraph plays little or no part in the situation, her behavior is painted in a different light. I can tell you that if my girlfriend had ever behaved like that in another man's company, and then continued to drink and hang out with him despite my feelings on the subject, I would show her the door and end my association with her.
My advice would really be to think long and hard about the relationship, where its going, and if its right for you. My two cents, hope you find them at least somewhat helpful.
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