Hivemind: Son of Squamous

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Yawns. Night.. tomarrow's a long day... er today's a long day. I got to get the camera equiptment from my school before anyone else does then work on several assignments before working then going clubbing. Tonights going to be the first time in a long time I was able to go to Release the Bats (the "local" goth club). What sucks is that it's a DJ only night.
 

I am single, but I love Christmas, because I get to meet up with the rest of my family (including uncles and grand parents and cousins). But then, not everyone there is in a relationship. My sisters (6 years younger then me) are also singles and I judge the likelihood of them finding a man any time soon as low as my likelihood to find a woman. They seem not particularly interested in pursuing a relationship, and to be honest, I am not exactly busy with that, either.

I wonder if I am just not trying much because I fear the rejection or if it's because I am not missing it or because I fear that I'd lose my freedom. Maybe it's a mix of all. Yeah, I think it has a lot to do with not wanting to invest effort in something that is not likely to yield results soon. I mean, I'd have to go out more, talk with strangers (of the female persuasion) and convince some of them that I am a likeable guy (that's probably easier) that also is... sexually interesting (harder), and go through all the failures and rejections and might go through a few prospects before I find someone that I want so share the rest of my life with and vice versa.

Not that I don't like being in love. It was wonderful, "back in the days". ;)

Mustrum "To lazy for a relationship?" Ridcully
 



I am single, but I love Christmas, because I get to meet up with the rest of my family (including uncles and grand parents and cousins). But then, not everyone there is in a relationship. My sisters (6 years younger then me) are also singles and I judge the likelihood of them finding a man any time soon as low as my likelihood to find a woman. They seem not particularly interested in pursuing a relationship, and to be honest, I am not exactly busy with that, either.

I wonder if I am just not trying much because I fear the rejection or if it's because I am not missing it or because I fear that I'd lose my freedom. Maybe it's a mix of all. Yeah, I think it has a lot to do with not wanting to invest effort in something that is not likely to yield results soon. I mean, I'd have to go out more, talk with strangers (of the female persuasion) and convince some of them that I am a likeable guy (that's probably easier) that also is... sexually interesting (harder), and go through all the failures and rejections and might go through a few prospects before I find someone that I want so share the rest of my life with and vice versa.

Not that I don't like being in love. It was wonderful, "back in the days". ;)

Mustrum "To lazy for a relationship?" Ridcully

I can see that. In some ways I feel the same. It's easier and safer just continue being single.
 


There'll be a load of someones out there for you Duskblade :) and one day you'll meet one of them.

I don't believe in just one person being right for you the statisical odds would not favour a positive outcome :D
A better way to improve these odds is to make sure you go out to social events and the like even if it is with couples because its a hell of a lot more likely to happen there than at home ;)

Dating sites - even if you're sceptical about them theres no harm in giving them a go :)
 

There'll be a load of someones out there for you Duskblade :) and one day you'll meet one of them.

I don't believe in just one person being right for you the statisical odds would not favour a positive outcome :D
A better way to improve these odds is to make sure you go out to social events and the like even if it is with couples because its a hell of a lot more likely to happen there than at home ;)

Dating sites - even if you're sceptical about them theres no harm in giving them a go :)

Says the man that can't find love either.:p
 


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