About 20 years ago when I was still at school, a friend of mine called Paul told me that there was this really fun game he'd been playing for a few months. He didn't tell me anything about it, only that I would enjoy it. So I went with him to the base of one of the stairwells where a friend of ours, Vincent, was waiting with a crude map of a road. There were no character record sheets, miniatures or even dice. The conversation went something like this:
Vincent (pointing at a spot on the map): "There are four men on the road here. Where are you?"
Me: "I don't know. Where can I be?"
Vincent: "Somewhere along the road."
Me: "Where's Paul?"
Paul: "I'm not there yet."
Me (pointing near where Vincent had pointed): "I'm here(?)"
Vincent: "The four men attack you."
Me (not too pleased): "Why do you get four men and I only get one?"
Paul: "He can create as many as he wants and they can be as powerful as he wants too."
Me: "And I can't?"
Paul: "No. That's the way it works."
Me (angrily): "This is a stupid game. How can I possibly win if he can create as many men as he wants and make them as powerful as he wants and I can't?"
Just then break ended so we had to pack up. I thought it was an absurd game, just about the least fun I could imagine.
Paul realised that he hadn't approached this in the right way, so over the next few weeks he introduced me to the Fighting Fantasy gamebooks. They're supposed to be solo adventures, but we played them together. I think we started with Warlock of Firetop Mountain or Forest of Doom. Eventually, Paul explained that in the game he played with Vincent, Vincent's role was similar to the authors of the gamebooks but Paul had many more options. It was then that I understood and soon started playing Basic D&D (red box?) on a regular basis with another group of friends.
Some time after that I convinced my mother to buy me the AD&D PHB, DMG and MM. She was quite reluctant thinking that it was a lot to spend on something I would soon get bored of - was she wrong about that!
I still have the copies of the Fighting Fantasy books that I started gaming with (I got them signed by the authors at UK GenCon just over a month ago) and my first AD&D books. And I'm still in contact with Paul even though he now lives thousands of miles away.