If it's specifically in regards to Charm Person, since it's the same spell one would cancel out the other since two effects can't stack.
I think that might be a question for sage advice. Generally speaking it's true - but something like charm person is a bit odd because the effect is that you consider a particular individual a friend. Considering someone else a friend isn't really the same effect. Maybe.
Not saying I disagree, just think it could be ruled both ways.