Well, there goes two of my three snarky answers. I guess that just leaves...
"Rhymes with cow."
I think you mean "Rhymes with bow."

I mostly say mee-lee, because I started pronouncing it that way when I was 10 (not nowing any better), and is one of my long-lasting bad-habits (in addition to playing D&D

If I were to take care and try to pronounce it correctly, I generally say may-lay.
I let my son know the more-correct way of pronouncing it, but with full disclosure that I will often "mis-pronounce" it.