WTF? Seriously? I mean, look, I don't know what the agenda is that makes you want to try to cast me as some sort of moral leper or whatever because I admit that I don't find the moral strictures of things happening around the game table to be of the greatest consequence. Its just how it is. You, me, nobody else who's a well-balanced person is going to consider some agreement they made about how to play a game to be THAT CRITICAL. Sure, if I say 'X', then generally speaking I do X, and I'll probably be pretty reliable about it too. But if I find that X is onerous, and it involves some gaming, then chances are I'm going to consider not doing X. I may also consider whomever else I'm playing with and weigh all the different factors. I'll also, generally speaking unless there's some impediment to that, be up front about things. Frankly I've always found that the EVEN MORE important central question is whether you're open with yourself about what your priorities are, what you actually do, and who you are. A lot of people in this world PRETEND a lot of things. Few people are totally honest with themselves, let alone anyone else. I at least aspire to be.