For what it's worth, when I ran the drinking contest, the winner barfed. He just managed to drink more beer before doing so than anyone else did. So it was more like "roll and be out" than "roll and lose." I like your idea of losing a turn, though.I don't like competitions that are roll-and-lose. The turn something that is fun into a tendon game based only on the results of each die roll --any roll can lose, multiple rolls are needed to win.
And the idea of physical representation of the pies is brilliant! Even better, how about a pile of peanut butter cups or something similar, and then the players can actually eat them? You could count the empty wrappers at the end.