I... actually met a girl!

Marchen · Oct 10, 2006

Good luck!

Priest_Sidran · Oct 10, 2006

Aaron L said:
Well, I got down here yestersay with my friend and his girlfriend. She came out an hour later and we all had something to eat and went to a few different bars, and thne went to a frienss house (I didnt know this friend, though.) She wasnt too talkative, every time I tried to start a conversation she kind seemd to just back off, so I just let her alone for the most part.

My friend and his girlfriend had been arguing a bit, and by the time we got to this house they were having a full blown fight, screaming and yelling at each other. After about a half an hour of that, the girlfriend came storming out, got my stuff out of her car, abd she and my friend headed back to our home town 3 hour awaym stranding us both at this guys house. A guy she knew took us out to a bar, where I called my friend who I am staying with to ask to pick me up, and I explined teh situation. He didnt have a car, so I ended up staying at this gusy house that I didnt really know (later after I got to his house I realized I had been there before and had actually met him a few months ago). We stayed out for a few hours, and got along well enough, but she still didnt really seem very interested in talking to me. She ended up sitting next to me but I think that was just the way it ended up and not intentional.

On the phone before I headed down yesterday she had asked me if I wanted to go horseback riding today, but with my back I really couldnt, so I asked her if she wanted to do something else today but she said she was going to spend the day with her friend. We are supposed to go out to have dinner and see a movie tomorrow night, but Im not sure if she really wants too or is just being polite.

So, not really a good weekend. Im stuck here for a week and Im nto sure how Im getting home.

Great time.

Don't stress it a friend that knows her well said she is honest and doesn't string people along it may just have been an bad start. (Espescially with another woman going postal), just relax and attempt to surround yourself, and her with a more calming setting (if at all possible). Sticking with a mutual friend is a good plan (at least at first), And even if you are not able to go horseback riding you might suggest a walk (If there is a beach or something nearby that is more naturish try that). Also on tuesday find a fun, neutral, and unusual game to play or if all else fails pictonairy (or any game that can make people interact in a way that shows something about that person at the same time). (I don't recommend clue)
And keep your chin up...

****My own news flash I have met a new gal too*****

While not my first time, it is the first in a long time (mainly due to lack of interest). Our first date was to the local coffee bar for the blues night we played chess and she wooped me baad.

ssampier · Oct 10, 2006

Priest_Sidran said:
****My own news flash I have met a new gal too*****

While not my first time, it is the first in a long time (mainly due to lack of interest). Our first date was to the local coffee bar for the blues night we played chess and she wooped me baad.

Sweeeet.

Wystan · Oct 10, 2006

Aaron L said:
...and Im trying to keep my spirits up.

Wow, on a quick read I actually thought that said trying to keep my pants up...I have noclue why?

May you charm her as you wish.

Aaron L · Oct 11, 2006

Priest_Sidran said:
****My own news flash I have met a new gal too*****

Great!

Aurora · Oct 11, 2006

Good luck tomorrow Aaron. I agree with a previous poster that she was probably just nervous and that coupled with a pissy mood could have made her come off as disinterested. Just keep your cool and think of this as establishing a friendship that may or may not go somewhere. Don't get yourself worked up so that you get bummed out if she isn't the one. Of course, I don't believe in the whole "the one" thing, but that is another thread.

Remember, a good adventurer doesn't head straight to the dragon's cave at first level. First he goes to the kobold cave and then to the orc caves and then the hobgoblins, etc until he gains enough experience points

grimwell · Oct 11, 2006

I too met a girl this week -- she claims to be my wife and said I should spend less time on the computer.

Jokes aside, keep plugging man. The ship's still floating and you just need to have a good time with the time you will have together. Don't stress it out too much over the strange things that have happened so far, you are just building up for some good karma.

Priest_Sidran · Oct 11, 2006

grimwell said:
I too met a girl this week -- she claims to be my wife and said I should spend less time on the computer.

Jokes aside, keep plugging man. The ship's still floating and you just need to have a good time with the time you will have together. Don't stress it out too much over the strange things that have happened so far, you are just building up for some good karma.

Did you happen to drink Mcdonalds Coffee