GMforPowergamers
Legend
very possible... lets seeFor the record though, concerning the things you are talking about I'm vastly more proactive than you seem to be.
not me i have not hidden a roll in years. maybe a full 20 but at least close. I will look at the passive I have noted and if that is high enough just give it to them... or if i know someone is 'known for' or 'going for' being the observant person I may just not give it a DC and just say that player finds it... but if a roll is to be made I will ask the players for it..If I know as the DM there is something hidden in a scene, I don't wait for a player to say "I Perception" or whatever, I just roll for the players behind the DM screen to see if they see it, and if they do I describe that they can see the hidden thing.
I may ask for perception check if they walk by but I may not that is more mood dependent
this i 100% agree with... the actions/check questions normally comes when i forget someone has it, or someone asks about a skill i didn't think of ahead of time.Likewise, if I describe a mural on the wall and I know as a DM that characters with religious knowledge might understand more of what is depicted in the mural, then I don't wait for a player to go, "I Religion it", I just call for Religion checks right away.
I agree here.The act of looking at a room or object in the room is enough to tell me the player wants to understand it. They don't need to say any magic phrase to do that.
i still don't understand why.. but i accept you can't wrap your mind around why i don't mind it.Which is one of several reasons something like, "I Perception it" or "I Investigate it" isn't a valid proposition at my table.
yeah I just have a different reading of passive/activeThe response is always going to be, "You already did." If they want more information they have to describe doing something that could have given them information they didn't have already.
i agree with this... those are two different things"I perception the room" doesn't open the chest.
if someone isn't interested in playing through in detail i am not going to force the issue."I investigate the room" probably does eventually, but will always be followed with something like, "Ok, but it's a biggish rom. What do you want to investigate first?"
unless investigating the room carries no consequences and I think the pace of play has gotten slow and I need to move things along a bit in which case I'll risk a handwave solely because I know OOC the player has no agency in this situation to lose.