I think the girls + boys non-stripper get together is an excellent idea. Count me in!!
Here's an idea... Since several folks have mentioned games, why not have a sort-of informal board/card/party game get-together? Folks can bring some games and play whatever tickles their fancy. And if they're not into playing games, I'm sure we can set up a "chat corner" where folks can just talk/hang-out.
I'll be happy to bring "Things in a Box" which is an awesome party game!! I may also have to buy "True Colors" which is another totally rockin' party game and would be a TON of fun to play with the ENWorld crowd.