Korgoth said:The point of playing the game is not to have a 'connection' to your fictional alter-ego... the point of playing the game is to "play".
Time has shown us here at EN World that there is no one single point to the game. Different people play for different reasons - the point of the activity depends upon the person, not on the activity.
Please stop asserting that you know why other people do or should play - it basically assumes you know them better than they do themselves, and that's disrespectful, insulting, and very likely just plain wrong.
If there's something unclear about this, please feel free to send a mod an e-mail to discuss further.