For example, normal matter scattered through space causes space to expand (in a way that slows down as the expansion of space spreads the matter out).
Stop right there.
There is no evidence that normal matter itself causes expansion. My understanding is that stuff with positive energy density, like normal matter *cannot* be responsible for such expansion, and having normal matter actually cause expansion is, so far, apparently unnecessary to explain the phenomenon. Much of the rest of what you say is close enough to current models, but this one bit is contrary to the current observations.
I guess to be fair is that there's one other possibility, too. That possibility is that what we think we see in the measurements isn't correct and that the universe is actually slowing down. So you have to give an argument about how that might happen.
Might as well say you have to have an explanation for the possibility that, while I see an apple on my desk, can pick it up, and bite it, there actually *isn't* an apple on my desk.
You don't have to have explanations for things that aren't observed. We observe an acceleration of the expansion. We have double checked those results, corroborated them with several different research groups using different methods. You don't have to explain how all of them might be wrong, until you see evidence they are, in fact, wrong.
So it's not like there aren't explanations beyond description. The problem is more like having too many, and we will need more data to distinguish among them
Yes, and that's exactly my point. You can make up an oodle of cute stories about how the Universe works. Data comes along and shows most of those stories are not consistent with reality. Eventually, you have enough data to prove that all but a very small number of those stories are not consistent with reality. This is where explanation and description become one and the same.
For "dark energy" we are nowhere near discarding most of the stories. We only have a small amount of relevant data. There are a ton of still possible explanations, but only a very small amount of description of what's happening. The two are by no means one and the same.
For example, if you like the cosmological constant, why does it have such a small but nonzero value? That's a bit trickier, worth a whole lot more than one post, and frankly controversial in a number of ways.
No, it isn't. At least, it is no trickier than why anything has its one particular value. It is no trickier to explain this value than to explain the charge of the electron, for example. That there is something weird about it being small is a figment of human perspective and ideas of scale, to which the Universe is by no means beholden.
I've always wondered about that ... does expansion have no effect on a large but gravitationally bound system such as a galaxy?
Not no effect. Just so small that it doesn't impact things.
Within a galaxy, the density of matter is very high, so gravitation dominates over those distances. The repulsion is there, but within a galaxy, the attraction of gravity is much stronger. So you have a strong pull, and a weak push, and the pull wins.
Out in the great vastness between galaxies, however, the normal matter is very, very thin, and the energy associated with the vacuum dominates, so the repulsion dominates.
There's nothing at all odd about this - take a bar magnet, and pick up a pin with it. Locally, electromagnetic forces are overcoming the force of gravity on that pin. Gravity is still there, but it isn't enough to pull the pin away from the magnet.
If it doesn't, how are odd effects (anomalous curvature) prevented when transitioning from a uniform expansion in deep intergalactic space to a uniform lack of expansion inside of a galaxy?
We aren't talking about sudden, sharp transitions. There isn't some sharp wall at the edge of the galaxy, or something. There's just a slow, smooth transition from the area around galaxies out into the deeps.