There also seems to be a much-touted opinion that someone posting a harsh critique of 4E is "expressing their feelings"; but anyone who offers a rebuttal to it is being "rude" or "insulting". Why post on a messageboard if response is not wanted or expected?
I believe (please correct me if I am wrong) you are making reference to the Celtavian thread. In which case I must really take you to task with how you have twisted what has happened on that thread to some imagined generality that is nowhere near indicative of EN World as a whole. If you have a chip on your shoulder and are over-correcting a perceived imbalance, then please DON"T!
The critique was not "harsh" but valid. The "expressing of feelings" was despondence by the OP at how the game had gone in a direction he did not like and that as his gaming group were heading that way, he was left on his lonesome.
On that thread there were several
valid rebuttals (some that I agreed with, but also some by the same "crew" who feel the need to defend 4E at every available evangelistic opportunity). And then there was:
Engilbrand said:
I stopped reading your post at the point that I realized that you hadn't actually understood the rules.
Remathilis said:
Good for you. Enjoy whatever gaming-or-nongaming activity you'd normally devote D&D time to. Learn a craft. Run for local office. Spend time with your friends or family.
Just don't sit on the internet throwing out the same tired "reasons" for why D&D isn't D&D and how Wizards killed your childhood.
Charwood Gene said:
Does that mean you'll never post something as long as this again?
Wow, what free time you must have. Good luck with WOW. I hope your fam,ily relationships survive it. Oh, and don't argue with me, I forbid it.
...and a post that got the guy banned for a week which I won't quote.
These ranged from snippy, to completely lacking in empathy to insulting and yes, to utter rudeness.
The us/them attitude you (Grimstaff) put forward is unfortunately held by way too many posters on these forums to the detriment of the board as a whole. I could have almost as easily taken to a pro3.x poster but your remarks were the most recent and cogent to the point I am trying to make.
People of EN World, let's actively try to find and share the things we have in common in addition to the normal divergent viewpoints rather than continuing the us/them partisan bashing and devisiveness that has corrupted these boards for too long. In other words, we're all gamers who love our hobby. Just try and have a little extra respect for people who share the same passion.
Best Regards
Herremann the Wise