Heretic of The Seventh Circle
I’ve never met a Batman fan who didn’t both love Batman and have a problem with this. People can have major criticisms of a thing they love.Batman remains pretty popular though. So I'm not sure I'd say most people have a problem with it.
IME most Batfans either head-canon/fan-fic the problem away, or try to ignore it and just assume that Bruce is doing more than we see on-panel.