For me it is simple: I play this game to have fun. If a spell would lessen my or my players' fun it does not get used.
I don't DM to educate my players, to teach them lessons or to make them appriciate level loss/item loss/pc loss. If they don't want those things to happen, then those things do not happen.
If a friend does not like to eat meat I won't force it on him every time I invite him.
I don't DM to educate my players, to teach them lessons or to make them appriciate level loss/item loss/pc loss. If they don't want those things to happen, then those things do not happen.
If a friend does not like to eat meat I won't force it on him every time I invite him.