When different people with different perspectives make literally opposite claims, then trash your argument to respond to one person, while not responding to the other person who made the exact opposite claim as them... it starts to feel like they just want to trash you instead of having a good faith discussion about the situation.
There are very few opposite claims being made.
I mean, if the argument is that halflings aren't being used well, and poster C makes that point. Then A attacks them for making that point, then B attacks them because halflings aren't being used well, but that has nothing to do with why C made their point.... then why aren't they addressing poster A too?
Hussar made some specific claims about halflings and how they were being used. And also made the contradictory claim that halflings are being given the red carpet treatment.
I pointed this out - at this point it became Hussar's claims against Hussar's claims. In a display of motivated reasoning it has been in this thread both a problem with halflings that they don't take pride of place and that they do. At the same time.
I took
@Hussar at his word.
@Faolyn debunked him, pointing out that he was missing most of the halfling NPCs. Both "Your facts aren't right" and "The facts you present do not support the conclusions you claim" are legitimate rebuttals to Hussar's anti-Halfling claims.
And although halflings appear in
adventures I have clarified repeatedly that their
Forgotten Realms lore appears to be fairly pathetic, especially where deities are concerned. Also their Greyhawk is little better. And they do not, as far as I know, even exist in Dragonlance, being replaced by the worst race in D&D history (Kender). Even gnomes get better representation in all of Greyhawk, the Realms, and Dragonlance.
No one as far as I know has tried to defend the writing of Halflings in the Realms and no one denies that the Realms is the default setting of 5e and was of both 3.X and 2e. So despite the claims that there are contradictions there is a consistent issue here.
We can't address halflings being both popular and not popular,
What even is "popular"? Halflings have supporters that far outnumber their players (I don't think I've ever played a halfling character) because they have a deserved niche- and that support is passionate again because it's a clear niche that should be protected. Halflings are popular enough for the PHB.
The only person who seems obsessed by popularity is
@Hussar who seems to want to set a numerical threshold deliberately just above the lowest mark for halflings and then use that as a stick to beat them. I don't honestly give much of a damn about popularity; I give a damn about RP niches.
of having a militia and not having a militia,
And yet my "every halfling carries a sling" works perfectly for halflings - and covers both. It is, however not the only way to do it.
of using money and not using money.
As far as I am aware the idea that halflings don't use money at all is 100% invented by you. They don't particularly
value money. But that just means few of them have the ambition to become rich - instead they like in modern parlance a good work-life balance.
Can you really find someone else actually saying that they don't use money at all?
But, only us who want a change are being called out, even when people who don't want a change are making contradictory claims.
Different people are making different claims based on different grounds - or pointing out different flaws in the arguments you and Hussar are making.