[OT] [OA] Japanese Traditions Questions

Gez

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We have a little campaign with little OA tones (although the action is set in a standard D&D land, the characters are all exilees coming from the asia-equivalent of the world); but I must admit we've not enough background.

Sure, the OA, and the Rokugan d20 books does contain several flavorful tidbits, like how to politely accept or make a present, but that's far from enough.

For example, two of the characters are wed. What was a wedding ceremony like in traditional Japan (or in traditional China -- we don't care too much about homogeneity) ?

Another thing, in the background of a character, I've made reference to birthday present. The problem is, I don't know if such a tradition existed. (That's not so bad, we can afford some anachronisms or "anatopism"; but I would like to limit their number.)

So, as I know there are people from everywhere on this board, including Japan, I turn to the community for help. Give me background and other flavorful bits about day-to-day life in medieval asian lands; I'll be much thankfull.
 

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First of all, I must say that Chinese culture and Japanese culture are very different indeed. The difference is far more then those those between two European countries. Indeed, all the Europeans are Christians, and they are all on the same continent. But Japan and China has different religion, and not on the same ground.

So basically, All I can say is about historical Japanese tradition. Rokugan seems to be in a age of Samurai and Ninja. That means maybe between 14th to early 19 th centuries. So I talk about tradition of those ages.

*Wedding

Well, I do not know much about pre-Edo era (before 17 th century). And wedding for nobles and Samurais in higher status were not "typical" anyway. So I just write about weddings for relatively wealthy citizens and not so higher ranked samurais in Edo era.

Usually, wedding is held in the bridegroom's house. Their families, relatives, and close friends attend that ceremony. There also be a couple called Nakoudo or Baishaku-nin. Matchmakers. They are usually middle-aged or old couple. And often the groom's boss, groom's mentor, village's chief, the landlord of the apartment, and such.

The bride's dress is usually white, and groom wears black. Some times, the bride goes to grooms house on a kind of palanquin.

The ceremony of oath is called San-San-Kudo. That means "3 by 3 equal 9 times". The bride and the groom drink Sake from 3 cups, by sipping 3 times each from all those cups. 3 was a lucky number in Japan. That means sky, earth, and human. 9 was the luckiest number as it is the result of 3 by 3.

After that they hold a wedding reception. Usually at that groom's house.

*Birthday present

No such things existed in pre-20th century Japan. Why? Because we are not using birthday to count someone's age! When someone is bone, that one is 1 year old. In the next new year, he is counted as 2 year old, and so on. So no, there were no birthday ceremony and such in historical Japan.

**Edit!
We WERE not using birthday before 19th century. But we are now using birthday. We are largely tainted by European cultures. Without birthday party or Christmas, how a little boy can get expensive Nintendo console or Playstation?


I hope this helps. And, feel free to ask anything more about historical Japan.
 
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RUN, do not walk, to the game store and purchase a copy of GURPS Japan for more data on Japanese culture than your game will probably need. Ditto that for GURPS China.

This will give you a 10000 ft. view of the culture across a few historical eras, and quite a bit of grist for the gaming mill.
 


Re: Re: [OT] [OA] Japanese Traditions Questions

Shin Okada said:
First of all, I must say that Chinese culture and Japanese culture are very different indeed. The difference is far more then those those between two European countries. Indeed, all the Europeans are Christians, and they are all on the same continent. But Japan and China has different religion, and not on the same ground.

Though it has become more pronounced in mondern times this is an important, if really complex, point.
Japan and China do share some very fundimental historical roots; primarily because of Japan's habit of adopting Chinese culture, art, history, philosophy, religion and just about everything else. But there are a lot of key differences so that you can't really talk about them easily together.

I've lived in China and I live in Japan now and in terms of behavior and worldview I think that mainland Chinese I've met tend to be more similar to Westerners in behavior & values than they are to Japanese (at least Japanese from the Kanto region around Tokyo -- Osaka is a totally different bag of beans).

The changes that the Japanese made to the Chinese culture they imported are instructive. This is a pretty good example:
At some point prior to the closed-country period (and for the life of me I can't remember which period this was) the Japanese adopted the Confusian form of government that was being practiced in China at the time.

So the social structure was broken up into 4 classes
1. Warriors (from 2-10% of the population)
2. Farmers (80%+ of the population) -- to keep them happy because their lives sucked. I think this probably also included fishermen but I'm not sure.
3. Artisans & craftsmen (5-10%)
4. Merchants (5-10%) -- because they were "parasites who produced nothing"

[Lots of Westerners like to talk about the eta or hinin who were an untouchable class and did work related to death like tanning, working in slaughter houses, etc. They're kind of like a fifth class.]

The intersting part is that the Chinese didn't have warriors on top.... they have beauracrats. Japan was fundimentally a warrior nation, though they later aquired the trappings of education and civility in the guise of samurai Japan's history is littered with brutal warfare for a reason. The period when you had the Emperor ruling with a noble class in Kyoto was only a few hundred years, the almost-a-thousand-year period after that was basically the emperor ruling as a figurehead while the various powers jockied for control behind the scenes. By the time of the Tokugawa period this trend was so pronouced that the Shogun was effectively the Emperor (but he wasn't of course, there was still somebody living in virtual poverty in a run down palace in Kyoto).
Depending on how intensly historical you want to get there is a lot of good stuff here.

Shin Okada said:
One other comment, though it depends on region a woman who marries is no longer a member of her family. She's a member of her husbands family; she moves into his house where she does exactly what his mother says, for years and years she takes care of the whole family, until the mother dies. Sterotypically the mother-in-law is pretty much tyrannical (not nessessarily mean, just very strict and very demanding)
This was taken to a pretty intense level even just fifty years ago. Both my host mom and (especially) host grand-mom have some really intense stories, about it. Among other things you basically act like your family doesn't exist, you usually comminicate infrequently, if at all and when you do interact you (at least publicly or in the presence of the new family) use strict formal address.
The name change thing (which happens in Western culture too, of course) is much more serious here. For a long time even if you were divorced you weren't allowed to change your name from your husbands in the official registry.

Other stuff (bear in mind my knowledge comes from traditional Japanese TV dramas more than anything else)
*the wife usually greets the hustband when he comes home (by kneeling and bowing her head)
*in upper class families the wife uses formal address with her husband, the husband never does with her
*(this has changed a lot recently but) children are very strictly educated; seen-but-not-heard kind of thing.

Though most people talk about Shinto and Buddhism as different religions the reality was much more hazy. Shrines (shinto churches) and temples (buddhist churches) were often located on each other's property and there were scholars and thinkers who insisted that Shinto kami were really aspects of the buddhist boddhisattwas.
Buddhism was seen as being stronger than Shinto, or at least that's what somebody told me once. They though it was better at removing the taint of death so that was why the funerals were Buddhist.
Modern Japanese have the saying that they're Shinto at birth, Christan when married and Buddhist when they die. It's kind of a joke, but most Japanese have a Shinto birth ceremony, a western-style wedding (minus the actual religious stuff) and Buddhist funerals. And their remains are kept in Buddhist graveyards.
If you're looking for cool Japan related ideas the different religious sects and variations give a lot of good grist.

During the closed-country period everybody was registered at their local temple.

I'm kind of at a loss for what other kinds of things to mention there's a lot out there, can you tell us a bit more about what you're looking for? What's your campaign like (especially the social class of the party members)?
 

I'm curious. If people generally never try to be true to reality in the "European" part of their world, why do they do so for the "Asian" parts (or "Arabian", anywhere else?)
 

I don't think it's necessarily the case that people don't try to be true to a European setting, Hong, but rather that most players think that they have a good idea of what it was like. With Asian cultures, they're more likely to realize that their preconceptions are false, and try and learn the truth.

I'd comment on the Japanese culture, but most of the important stuff has already been said. :)
 

Lord Pendragon said:
I don't think it's necessarily the case that people don't try to be true to a European setting, Hong, but rather that most players think that they have a good idea of what it was like.

I am pretty sure that most people know that medieval Europe didn't really feature big pantheons of gods, though.
 

People more knowledgeable than I have given some pretty good answers, so I'm mostly just tossing out supplementary bits here:

At a Japanese wedding, edged things (knives, swords, etc) are never given. These are bad luck, since they would cut the ties that bind.

Things are never given in sets of four or nine. These are the two unluckiest numbers in Japanese superstition, "four" being pronounced the same as "death" and "nine" being pronounced the same as "pain".

Cut flowers traditionally weren't given if plants were gifts. Since they were dead, and represent death thus.

Birthday presents were not given as such in traditional Japan. But gifts were exchanged for various reasons, they just weren't expected on birthdays.
 

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