[OT] What is WRONG with people?

Rashak Mani said:

Havent been to the US recently to say... but New York did have a reputation for not caring for the guy next to you. People basically ignoring completely others. Dont know how the New Yorkers are now after attacks...

I was in New York a couple years ago, and I found the people there as friendly as anywhere else; New York gets a bad rap. Maybe there are brusque people in NYC, but I never saw them. It could be more a media exaggeration than anything else.
 

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Re: Re: Karma

Originally posted by ColonelHardisson No one was
Speaking of which, the internet is ample illustration that the rise of the jackass isn't just a problem here in the US... [/B]
Then get off the internet
 


Yep, I know where your coming from completely. I read a posting by someone on a website about not working out in a D&D group. The person was really angry, said that they needed this game and all....?

Makes me wonder why I game.... Sometimes I cannot believe how immature people are!

If a D&D group say's your not working out, have the courtesy to bow out like a gentleman.



Immature and mean people suck!
 

Re: Re: Re: Karma

R.X.DIEM said:
Then get off the internet

Why? Just because there are jackasses, that doesn't mean that they outnumber the good guys. SO we should just roll over and let the jackasses have free reign? If we fled everyplace there were jackasses, we'd eventually have no place to go.
 

It does indeed require courage to confront these people. Unfortunatly they all to often see it as an attack on themselves and not as an honest attempt to try and have them see their behaviour as im proper. I have been fortunate to have grown up in the same area all my years (36). Going through school you saw the same people every year, few changes and again fortunate for me every colour in the rainbow, every religion under the sky. It gave me a great base as well well as parents who did care. Being a science nerd, gamer, and 6' when every one else was just growing set me apart. And yes there was a few people who weren't nice, but as I was a nice person, helpful, etc. I found I was similarly treated for 95% of the time.
I try to do the same in my life, being helpful, looking at the glass half full and over time and awareness not complaining, but doing stuff. I walk in Aids, MS, and Cancer walks. I try to always be helpful if directions are asked, and when I have people over or go to their homes I try make sure every one has a good time. Yes there are rude and annoying people in the world, but if you do your best not to be one, and I hope most people do, no matter how much someone may piss you off. Just try and be cordial and friendly. I try my best no to wish ill on others, even really nasty people, I try to understand why they are the way they are and maybe just being to much of an optumist I hope to somehow help them.
For example my moms car wasn't working and we had to wait for the tow truck. She was all "humph" and "Where is he?" and "Whats taking him so long?" I just said to her, be happy were not in Israel, or Afganistan, or so many other places. Were healthy, it's only an hour, were not expected anywhere, just relax and he'll get there when he gets here. He did, the car started up, I went to get some take out dinner and she went home. Everyone happy. I just think people don't look at how good they have it and appreciate just how lucky we all are. To relate this to my gaming world I never have allowed Evil characters in my games. I have always tried to instill into them, even the dark ones, concepts of hope, redemtion and Joy. Not always easy in a Werewolf or Vampire game but it is do able. In my DD games I have set the players as the underdogs up against a huge religious organization which they know is wrong but most don't and though a challege, the party has right on their side, as they follow the true dieties. It has been a great game so far and they still have much to do but there is hope there, joy when they do convert people and show the truth to them , and is a constant challenge to them, beyound the usual dungeon crawls. Well thats my rant for today Best to all.
 


Good show, Quickbeam. I can't tell you the number of times my friend and I got yelled at by people we were scolding. One situation comes to mind outside the local Target store. A woman was loading her groceries in the back seat of her SUV then putting a carry cradle WITH THE BABY IN IT into the very back portion so it would be wedged when she shut the back door. How stupid is that?! Anyway, we repeatedly and loudly told her she simply couldn't do that until it caused enough of a scene that she finally acquiesced. Now I just have to hope that kid doesn't grow up like its mom. :)

People, get out there and confront stupidity and bad behavior! Shame people into doing the right thing!
 

This reminds me of when I was in high school. I was the fat kid, I was tall, but I was fat. I was either ignored or belittled all through it. Even what I was 21, I went to the bars with friends and people picked on me. That seen in Nutty Prof, where that guys makes fun of the Professor was very hard on me. It was very difficult in HS and beyond. But when I turned 22, I decided to change somethings, got into lifting and lost 120 lbs of fat. Well, those same people in HS and at the bars, didn't insult me anymore. They wanted to be my friend and insult other people with me. I told them to go **** themselves and left. I didn't want to associate myself with that kind of crap.

I agree with an earlier post, animals are kinder and more human then people. They do as their instincts tell them. I don't think there is an instinct to be mean or cruel to people. But, it is a learned behavior, and the real question, why and where this behavior comes from, which I could talk about for hours. Just my 2 cents.
 

Greetings!

Wow. There was one time I was relaxing at home with my wife, and there was a knock at the door. A man was desperate, and needed help immediately! Someone was trying to steal his car!

I ran out with him to find his car a little ways away. A strange man was inside it, in the driver's seat. I questioned the man quickly about the man's actions. The owner said that it didn't appear that the man was armed, but was still persisting in trying to physically take the man's car. I then leaped upon the man from the passenger side of the car, and struggled with him briefly as I locked him in a choke-hold. Soon, I had the man on the ground, subdued. In a few minutes, the police arrived. (Before leaving, I had told my wife to call the police.)

The police took the man into custody, and questioned me as well. The police sergeant commended me on my actions, and my judgment. The accused was arrested, and secured. The other man recieved custody of his Mercedes back, and was at peace.

I returned to my home, and sat down to dinner with my wife. My wife and friends sometimes question my judgment when I got involved with this situation, and in other situations, where kids were swearing in front of women, and where a man was being abusive to his girlfriend. I explained that the police were on the way, and when his girlfriend was screaming for help, and *I* could hear her, that *made it* my business. He saw how large I am, and decided that it would be wiser not to challenge me as I stood outside his door in the courtyard. His girlfriend thanked me, as did the police. More importantly, my neighbors were appreciative.

My friends and family question me sometimes, because they think that I could get killed. I could. I don't mind though. What we have to do, as citizens, as Americans, is stand up against barbarism. We have to stand against the tide of moral corruption. If someone cries out for help, and you don't answer the call, who will? I believe that strengthening our community begins with *you* and me, as it were. The jackals in our midst count on everyone around them being fearful and apprehensive to get involved. Well, too bad. They can fear me. I'm certainly not going to live in fear of any man. I just can't. Everything that I value relies on me having the courage to be willing to fight for my values. The criminal, the predator, the jackal, they need to know that we will all get involved. Think about it this way:

What if when ever there was an assault, rape, robbery, vandalism, or other such screaming mayhem, one or a group of local people, armed as necessary, swooped in to stabilize the situation until the arrival of the police? A constant, passionate, and skilled response by citizens everywhere, at all times. That situation would not make the jackals happy. It would make the very environment hostile to the kind of actions that they want to indulge in. Our society at one time was like this. We should be inspired to get involved with our communities at any point of need.

I would have dressed those idiots down, right there, in front of everyone. I would have openly exposed their petty villainy to all in the store, to not only enlist others support for me, but also to uphold their actions and attitudes to general shame and scorn. Hopefully, it would inspire others in the group, and shame the jackals that thought it was so effing funny.

Not in my book, it isn't.

It's a shame. I agree it is just so desperately petty and wicked. Our society swims in such pettiness. It's disgusting.

Carry on my friends!:)

Semper Fidelis,

SHARK
 

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