Pielorinho
Iron Fist of Pelor
Huh. I've got a player like that in my game, and i love it. She comes up with great backstory for my campaign, most of which i can use -- and when I can't, I work with her to change it. One of the best adventures in my current campaign took place in a city and culture that she'd invented for her character's backstory.
But she can't strategize worth a damn, and her characters keep dying because they don't know how use tactics.
My solution? I work with her on it. If she tells me that her rogue wants to lasso the roc as it flies away, climb up its talons, scurry over its back, and stab it in the eye, I describe in gory detail the roc's gleaming, blood-soaked, swordlike talons, how a single one could spit her without a care. I describe the massive beat of the roc's wings, how soon it'll be hundreds of feet in the air, and how unpleasant it would be to drop from that height. And then I ask her again what she wants to do.
She's pretty good about getting the hint.
Of course, I work with her like that because I love the material she creates for my game. If this player isn't working with you on background material, or if you just like to maintain control over your world, you're in a different situation.
Daniel
But she can't strategize worth a damn, and her characters keep dying because they don't know how use tactics.
My solution? I work with her on it. If she tells me that her rogue wants to lasso the roc as it flies away, climb up its talons, scurry over its back, and stab it in the eye, I describe in gory detail the roc's gleaming, blood-soaked, swordlike talons, how a single one could spit her without a care. I describe the massive beat of the roc's wings, how soon it'll be hundreds of feet in the air, and how unpleasant it would be to drop from that height. And then I ask her again what she wants to do.
She's pretty good about getting the hint.

Of course, I work with her like that because I love the material she creates for my game. If this player isn't working with you on background material, or if you just like to maintain control over your world, you're in a different situation.
Daniel