ph0rk
Friendship is Magic, and Magic is Heresy.
Eh. You can probably strike with close to the same force given a whole-body windup and an inanimate target. The issue with trying to use a quarterstaff one-handed is brought into focus when you consider what happens after that strike.
Yep, you gain advantages rebounding from either a miss or a hit with two hands you simply don't with one hand. That's why two-handed lever weapons like a greatsword aren't really slow at all.