The simple phrase is “it didn’t feel like what I wanted out of D&D.” What’s so difficult about that?
Because you don't get to define what I mean when I state my opinion? Because you're the only one I've ever heard utter that phrase? I think getting even mildly perturbed about something like this is a bit silly when I've explained what it means to me? I don't remember the last time I used the phrase other than to explain what it meant when I said it back when.
I get that there are certain trigger words and phrases. I just don't see "It didn't feel like D&D" rising to anywhere near that level.
But again. Horse. Dead. I'm done discussing this ... if you want to get back to what the OP was asking about I may respond. But this topic? Nah.