Well, then we may have a different requirements for sim or we just mean different things or want different experiences. Maybe "simulation" isn't the right word for you, I don't really care about these semantic arguments anymore more.Wow. Can't say anyone I've known who leans into the sim end of games would probably be going for D&D as their game of choice. Admittedly, its been many years since I knew many people who ran that way, but D&D wasn't it then, for any number of reasons (mostly that almost every mechanism in the game tends to fail the sniff test fairly frequently there, usually because of excessive (and sometimes odd) abstraction).
All I know is that to me the game feels real enough.