I actually don't think there's a major difference between the two. How would I want to be treated? Well, I'd want to have my concerns and preferences listened to and respected, even if they're not shared by the other person. You can get there by either route.The reference to the Golden Rule is a big red flag, actually. Those of us don't work in Equity, Inclusion, Trauma-Informed anything really, even something as seemingly benign as TTRPGs, have come to understand the shortcomings of the Golden Rule. [...] We tend to use instead the "Platinum Rule" which states "Treat people the way they want to be treated."