God. This hit me like a punch in the gut. I'm wondering about a whole lot... I hope you can keep us informed when you feel ready to let us know what's up. And I hope you look after yourself while all this is going on... I was there six months ago, and it's not a fun feeling at all. I wish you (and Rel/Fru) all the best, and here's hoping everyone gets out fine.
I know it's been said before a dozen times, but if there's anything you need from us ENWorld folk, don't hesitate to ask. We've put together all sorts of amazing things before (of which Fru has been a part, I'm sure!), so it's only fair for us to do something to help out.