MGibster
Legend
Because people are complicated and so are our stories and our preferences.How is it possible to state that D&D is not realistic but also that it needs to be somewhat ground in reality? The first clause implies a binary while the second requires that there not be.
So this applies to many works of fiction throughout a wide variety of genres. Let's take zombie entertainment like The Walking Dead, Dawn of the Dead, Shaun of the Dead, or even Juan of the Dead. Each of these stories involve a very fantastic element, namely that the dead rise and feast upon the flesh of the living. There is no plausible scenario where the dead can be ambulatory, react to stimuli, or take a bite out of their neighbors when they're feeling peckish. It's simply impossible. But you have to accept this premise in order to enjoy zombie entertainment. And I know some people who don't enjoy it simply because they can't accept the premise. So there's the binary part.
For most zombie entertainment, other than animated cadavers, the world works pretty much the same as ours. This is where the sliding scale comes in. Just because we accept the impossible premise that the dead can walk doesn't necessarily mean we'll accept other fantastical elements. If Rick Grimes can punch a hole through a zombie's skull with his bare fist or jump from five stories up without hurting himself that's too much for me. And on the surface that seems silly. If I can accept walking corpses why can't I accept someone punching holes in skulls with their fists or jumping 50 feet with no problems?
And the truth is, what I can accept is highly dependent on genre. When I watched the Avengers, I don't complain about the Hulk making conservation of mass a joke, that Captain America's shield does not obey the laws of physics, or that Hawkeye and Black Widow can make meaningful contributions to a team that includes Thor on it. And likewise, I can accept a lot of things in fantasy. But it still needs to have some elements that are grounded in reality, or, as I prefer, the impression of realism for me to enjoy.