Ahhh... The argument is:
"You can't tell the difference in your average game because the results are still within the same range."
Took a long time to discern that, I apologize. And in that case I say "I suppose that depends on how you're playing."
In the games where I played with 3d6 instead of 1d20 it was fairly evident in the long run because I was in Job Corps doing all night every night D&D and GURPS after class. Over a hundred rolls every day for weeks at a time in 6-16 hour sessions (depending on the day of the week) made it suuupes obvious that 3d6 weighted toward the middle and shaped the way the game felt.
To the point that I would run 3d6 3e and 3.5e D&D for years to come while my at-the-time boyfriend shunned it in favor of the swingier d20 and played it all up for slapstick DBZ style comedy on Nat 1s.
That said, you can always load up AnyDice to get a randomized sample... how many rolls would you say the average session has? 4 players and 5 monsters, monsters survive 3 rounds. Everyone gets one roll a turn, but also saves happen so on some turns multiple people have to roll an AoE save...
Let's call it 30 rolls over the course of the fight, including 9 initiatives.
30 rolls with 1d20: 17, 5, 11, 14, 15, 14, 19, 11, 8, 19, 18, 14, 1, 10, 9, 13, 13, 7, 5, 9, 3, 16, 4, 4, 11, 13, 19, 6, 7, 12
1) 1
2) 0
3) 1
4) 2
5) 2
6) 1
7) 1
8) 1
9) 1
10) 1
11) 3
12) 1
13) 3
14) 3
15) 1
16) 1
17) 0
18) 1
19) 2
20) 0
30 rolls with 3d6: 15, 12, 12, 6, 7, 11, 11, 13, 13, 6, 13, 11, 12, 15, 10, 11, 12, 12, 13, 13, 9, 11, 13, 10, 14, 7, 7, 8, 16, 10
3) 0
4) 0
5) 0
6) 1
7) 3
8) 1
9) 1
10) 3
11) 5
12) 5
13) 4
14) 1
15) 1
16) 0
17) 0
18) 0
In even a single fight the weighting is really strong and evident.
AnyDice is an advanced dice probability calculator, available online. It is created with roleplaying games in mind.
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I used AnyDice to provide the rolls.