So how's life treating all of you?

Life, for me, is good.

I'm thankful to be gainfully employed - the mental health field may not pay much, but there's certainly no lack of work, which translates to job stability for me (even if it makes a less than stallar comment about society in general). Today is my first day back from a week's hiatus, and thankfully has been a slow day thus far (allowing me to write responses to messageboards I'm technically not supposed to be looking at during work).

I've spent the last week completely vegging out - and my wife has been supportive of this, allowing me to do my own thing. I dug out my old Planescape:Torment game (which I'd never finished when I first bought it) and stayed up late playing it every night.

I'm pleased to report that the whole family is healthy and happy. My 18-month old son is growing up way too fast, and my wife and I are now discussing a second child. My wife's job is also going well, and as an added bonus the other person who holds her same position (but has more seniority) will be leaving for a new job soon, which means my wife's work schedule will change to a much more agreeable one (every Thursday, Friday, and Saturday off).

My wife and I celebrated our 5th anniversary this Friday. Though our plans were cut back quite a bit due to unexpected work complications, we still had a good evening.

We bought our first home in May, and are slowing getting it put together, as it needs a lot of cosmetic work. Our goal is to have a new front lawn by the end of September. Painting the house will come next summer.

About the only truly sucky thing that's happened to me was at the end of July, when I went out to check on someone at the request of their therapist (I work for Portland's crisis team, so this is a big part of my job) and found the woman dead in her apartment. Though she appears to have died of natural causes (not suicide or drug overdose, which isn't unexpected when dealing with the mentally ill), it's still an unsettling event.

Gaming has been a bit shaky lately but getting better. Our group suffered from low attendance, which resulted in a lot of cancelled games - our GM won't run a game for less than three people. However, things seem to have stabilized, and we're recruiting new people. I'm a bit disappointed that one of my favorite co-players, who was going to be out of the game until mid-September to prepare for school, will now be out for a much longer period - but I can't begrudge her that (real life vs gaming, and all that). We played last night for the first time in three weeks - and ended up with a near TPK. However, this isn't as bad as it seems; I now get to bring in a new character whose background I like better than my old character, and better yet we don't have to finish City of the Spider Queen (we got wasted by the archmage with the contingencied prismatic spray, for those who know the adventure).
 

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Ankh-Morpork Guard said:


I've waited a long time...and I truthfully don't think I can mentally take it being so far away much longer. Maybe my reasons seem irrational and I'm just sounding like a 'typical teenager'...but that isn't it.

Heh. That's what every "typical teenager" says.

Good luck to you on that though. What's the job sitch like in Wales? I mean, it's bad here, I can't imagine it's any better there.
 

Tarrasque Wrangler said:


Heh. That's what every "typical teenager" says.

...oh quiet you! :p

Good luck to you on that though. What's the job sitch like in Wales? I mean, it's bad here, I can't imagine it's any better there.

Its not too much better from what I know...though the area I'll be heading too is very slowly growing into a bit more urban than it used to be, so that opens up a few jobs here and there. I'll probably end up doing something simple and boring, but I don't mind. Besides, I can't work for 6 months after I move there...
 

Ankh-Morpork Guard said:
I'm not turning back. I can't. I'm almost to tears at the thought of not making it next year. Its probably the first time, in all of my life, that I've truly needed to do something. The hardest part is, that it seems to go against everything else...but I've made the right choice for me...even if everyone else doesn't see it.
I can say I've been there, and good luck. You gotta do what's right for you. It's far better to look back on an action later and wonder if it was a mistake, than to look back on a missed opportunity and wonder what might have been.

I hope things work out for you.
-Dave
[Who's obviously not advocating just ANY life-changing actions, but if you've thought on it and worked on it and searched your soul over it and the answer you get is that it may be a mistake but you've got to do it, do it.]
 
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DaveStebbins said:
I can say I've been there, and good luck. You gotta do what's right for you. It's far better to look back on an action later and wonder if it was a mistake, than to look back on a missed opportunity and wonder what might have been.

I hope things work out for you.
-Dave
[Who's obviously not advocating just ANY life-changing actions, but if you've thought on it and worked on it and searched your soul over it and the answer you get is that it may be a mistake but you've got to do it, do it.]

That's actually part of the reason my mother is encouraging me. I've been aiming for this for a good three to four years now...its kind of strange when its finally so close and I realize it ISN'T 'two more years...two more years' anymore.

This is definatly one reason I love ENWorld. Great people and lots of advice/support. Thanks you guys! :)
 

There are some up's and downs in my life at the moment. My mother is in a rather grave health situation :(.

On the flip side, I stepped on the scale the other day and had a pleasent suprise--I've lost from 5-6 kilograms in the past 6 months!!

The thing is I can't figure out how it happened. My guesses:

1) A regime of gainful exercise--at least one sit-up each morning ;)

2) Improved diet--I've managed to cut down my calorie intake by reducing the consumption of vegetables, fruits, grains, etc. while maintianing my regular consumption of junkfood, diet pepsi, etc.

3) I've been RPGing more. Any possiblity that helps? ;)


seriously, I have improved my diet significantly, actually. I stopped going to McDonalds, eating sweets, and switched to diet cola (dunno it that helps, but I try to believe).
 

Life is good...and changing

I'm happy with my life. I'm not satisfied with my situation.

I have a wonderful wife (for over 5 1/2 years now) . I have a job that pays most of the bills and some health insurance. There are 10 employees who report to me, most of who seem to think I'm the best boss they have ever had.

That said, I'm not satisfied with that job knowing I can do better. So, instead of complaining about it, I have decided to start a Master's degree. Guess what field...hint: I'm a gamer.

That's right, Computer Information Systems. Yeah, the field isn't hiring a lot right now, but the overall economy isn't firing on all cylinders. It's what I like though.

Most of all, my wife loves me and we enjoy spending time together doing things like D&D with our friends.
 

timetable of last month

July 23 - lost my job.

Aug 1st - my wife told me she wants a divorce after a year of marriage and five years living together.

Aug 5 - gained a new job

Aug 3 - signed severence and confidentiality papers from my former employer. Lost income support pay based on the fact that I got a new job.

Aug 8 - told someone I used to work with, I dug her - she feels the same. Yeah!

Aug 10 - told I didn't get the job, after all. Lost a lot of money

Aug 15 - told by numerous landlords, no job, can't get a decent place

Aug 21 - got a job, except half the money I used to. Night job, so I can still look for work during the day.

Aug 22 - based on my debt and my new job the only place I can afford to live with my new job is community housing. Have to wait three months for a place.

Aug 23 - realized will have to lose most of my furniture, since I have to rent a room and I can't afford to ship it and barely afford the storage. Will also lose my high speed internet!

July 24 - Aug 24: Have had a great group of friends who have helped and supported me from day one of this crap. They have offered me storage spot for my books, movies, etc My friends rock!

The only thing I am truly depressed about: my ex-wife threatens to take away my best friend: Mr. Max, my cat.
 

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