billd91
Not your screen monkey (he/him) 🇺🇦🇵🇸🏳️⚧️
Repeat after me:
System may matter, but it doesn't matter that much.
The rules aren't the game.
The people you game with are the game.
I'd like to underscore these particular lines in the quote. System does matter, in part, because different systems may scratch different itches you and your fellow players have. There are several games I'd be willing to run including 4 editions of D&D/Pathfinder, 3 editions of Traveller, 2 editions of Star Wars, 3 different superhero RPGs, 2 different generic systems, 2 different horror systems, and at least 1 comedy system (Toon, for those of you keeping score at home). Each plays a bit differently but I like them all well enough to run them as long as my players were willing and I have a good campaign (or series of one-shots) idea. I've even run or could run more systems but prefer not to because I don't like them enough.
You don't really need to have a single system you call home now or ever. It's not really sad not to have one as long as you're capable of having fun with other systems and games. It's not sad to have a system you like best of all, either. Again, as long as you're continuing to have fun. If you're feeling rootless now, I would suggest you not lament it but embrace it. Experience it by experiencing as many games as you can.