Very few things disturb me. I can be shocked easily, but for something to disturb me, it has to be something I dwell on for awhile.
Somethings that I have been told should disturb me, but don't are
-digging up the dead body of my mom's ex-boyfriend that cheated on her w/11 other women & giving her an STD after he was missing for 2 weeks. Since I went to the police the next day, that was the longest night of my life. I've been told I should find it disturbing the fact that she was such a nice person, that she was my mom, that she was someone I knew so well could do something like that.....but I don't. I guess I saw shades of gray back then.
-my mom sleeping with my 1 month older best friend, age 15.
-watching my ex-wife's parents die of colon cancer
Some things that do disturb me are
-visiting my parents in prison (something about walking into a place where you can't get out easily)
-my dad conviced of a crime I believe him to be innocent of...he'll be 88 when he is free again. Despite both my parents being lawyers, I learned more from my parents cases than any they tried. If you ever get accused, go for broke. With conviction rates in the upper 90% across the country (USA), that is the only chance you have. Appeals are for errors in law, so realistically you only have one shot at your defense.
-my great bunny massacre. driving 10 mph across west texas in a fog extremely thick
-overhearing my ex-wife in the bedroom with another guy.
dragonhead said:
The most disturbing thing i have seen is going out on a blind date to find my date (to my shock and utter disgust) was my mom
lol. I am surprised that didn't happen to me. My mother use to keep the same age regardless of how old I got on the BBS curcuit. It did suprise me when she became friends with a girl online who I had a one night swinging relationship with.
Dr. Awkward said:
Darkness said:
*nods* That's how I first found out about my mom and stepfather. I was ca. 11 at the time.
Don't nobody lock their doors these days?
sometimes the locks don't work anyway....
Just so no one thinks I'm a saint and my ex-wife is bad for sleeping with another guy while I was in the house, my wife walked in on me with another woman. The door had been locked. I resisted the urge to try the door when my ex-wife was cheating though I stayed awake all night. The sounds were bad enough. I didn't need images.