I prefer my cheesecake and beefcake to be available in equal measure, the level of which is almost irrelevant to me. If the men are only pictured gruffly in sensible attire, then the same should be true for the women (and the enbies). And vice-versa also applies. If I'm seeing half-naked women drawn for the male gaze, I'd better be seeing half-naked men drawn for the female gaze (and half naked sexy enbies for everyone!).
And obviously, the art should match the tone of the text. If it's lowkey and gritty, I don't expect to see flamboyant impractical outfits.
Nudity != sex, but nudity is frequently used as a shorthand for it, and in North American society, nudity is more taboo than violence, so I'm not surprised we don't see many examples of non-sexual nudity in modern media.