Mark Hope said:
I am tempted to accept your offer, but I'm not sure I should. I am finishing off design projects for Dark Sun 3e at the moment and am then taking a break from all design and reviewing work in preparation for the birth of my son (due any day now!). So while I'd like to read and offer my baseless vitriol in return, I can't guarantee that I'd have the time. If you have something short, though, why not send me that and I'll give it a shot. As you already know, though, I am an opnionated and uncaring swine, so caveat emptor

...
I'll find you some short ones. Or I may just send you whatever, but dont feel pressured to read anything right away, just whenever you feel like it and have a spare moment. I'll distinguish the short ones from the not as short (though honestly most of my stuff is under 10 pages single spaced).
Well, I think that you have a tendency to mistake opinions for assertions of fact, unless the person speaking expressly qualifies his words as only opinion. My take on it is that a person's words are only ever opinions, unless they expressly qualify them as facts.
yea I tend to take people litterally. But I also tend to feel that especially on messageboards, you should make an effort to be very clear about things.
But mostly I've been speaking of instances, such as in the Eragon thread, where I said to someone that said it was bad that it was only bad in their opinion, and then they began to explain how its "objectively bad" etc. Which is a lot of what this all comes from, people trying to say their opinions are "right" about a work of art, either because of their special training, or because a lot of people agree with them.
Yes it can. But that just means that we should be vigilant, not that we should reject the idea of superior opinions out of hand
To me the idea of a superior opinion is just an oxymoron. Opinions are inherently subjective, and as such one is simply incapable of being "better" than the other. *Maybe* better informed.
With the stuff that really matters, it usualy isnt a matter of opinion.
Mostly what scares me about it is it follows that if someones opinion is inferior, they may be as well.
Heh. Well, it might not surprise you when I say that I believe that some people are more valuable than others. Elitism is just a fact of life. I think that it is a failing of our culture that we cannot accept this without feeling (or being made to feel) like bad people. Life isn't fair and we do ourselves a disservice by sticking our heads in the sand and being all kumbaya about it.
I think people can devalue themselves by doing horrible things, like Ted Bundy. And I believe people can fail to, or be prevented from, reaching their potential. And the potential comes in different forms...not everyone can be a virtuoso musician, or a brilliant physcists, but everyone can contribute and do great, meaningful things in their own way.
You hit the nail on the head there in your last sentence. People do have the right to express their opinions as "distastefully" as they like - they had just better be prepared to accept the consequences of doing so.
Well, I dont really believe that anyone has the right to intentionally try to be hurtful to someone. I dont even really think that you have the right to not think about other peoples feelings. But officially you do, and so we have laws and customs to punish those who dont show respect for others.