You should also stop using the term rules lawyer as a derogatory term for people who understand and care about the rules. It alienates the people you try to talk with and makes you out to be something you might not be.
I didn't call anyone a rules lawyer, I said that sounds like a rules lawyer approach. It's no different than your implication that what I am doing is mere "fluff". Understanding the rules doesn't make one a rules lawyer. Trying to inisist that the wording of the rules must have a particular meaning in every conceivable scenario does. The rules are by their nature limited. They always will be. My aforementioned example of swimming is just one example.