Congratulations! I just got married two weekends ago (and didn't post anything about it since I'm rabidly anti-OT posts these days), so I can tell you there's a lot of work ahead, but despite the pain and stress of getting the wedding together, you'll enjoy every minute of the actual day when it finally comes along.
I'd congratulate you, but I've seen and heard this story too many times and know how it ends. So instead, I offer my condolences on your loss, in advance.