I see. I guess I'm kind of the opposite way, I really don't like lickspittle/fainting/damsel-type female characters in cis-hetero stuff unless they're actual lunatics/stalkers (when it sort of wraps around to being kind of fun again), which are sadly not uncommon in the worse-written shonen-type stuff that WoT is rather equivalent to (I mean, WoT is a cut above the really dire shonen, to be clear, it's not like, "average isekai" levels of bad), and in a lot of shoddier fantasy.
I guess the shoe is on the other foot now though as a lot of female-led fantasy novels of the slightly shoddier kind basically gender-flip to a similarly rubbish dynamic, and just have tsundere Edward and Jacob equivalents inexplicably in love with the female lead, despite her behaving like a jerk/maniac. I'd blame Twilight but Vampire Eric vs Vampire Bill shows it pre-dates that.