Vyvyan Basterd
Adventurer
That's not what I said.
Sorry, I wasn't clear in that I was not attributing this sentiment to you. I was merely using your euphimism as a way to point out how someone takes the criticism too far and insults fans of a particular game.
To tone down the example a bit- I wrote it that way because I'd had enough of people telling me to try chocolate covered jalepano stuffed turdmuffins for the day- imagine trying to convince a 4 year old to eat asparagus and/or brussels sprouts after they've already complained "They taste nasty!" (And have, in fact, tasted the veggies.) No matter how much you tell that kid to try that asparagus, you're going to meet resistance because he's already made up his mind. Now, its possible he may change his opinion some time in the future- usually if he experiments with them of his own free will. But every time you try to feed the kid asparagus, you're in for a war.
Using children in your analogy hurts the analogy because as a father of two wonderful boys I know that children are extremely difficult to reason with. If I instead use your example with adults I could get this exchange (as I actually have IRL):
Adult 1: I hate brussel sprouts!
Adult 2: Why don't you like them?
Adult 1: They're bitter and nasty.
Adult 2: How have you had them cooked?
Adult 1: Boiled.
Adult 2: Try frying them with seasoning and butter, baking them with this seasoning, or even roasting them on the grill.
<Later>
Adult 1: I tried frying the brussel sprouts.
Adult 2: How'd you like them?
Adult 1: Surprisingly good!
Just like someone who currently dislikes 4E for certain reasons may hear of a way that others who play but dislike the same aspects of the game have made changes to arrive at the feel they desire. Or they may "fry 4E" and still not like it.
When it comes to things like Healing Surges and other videogamey mechanics, I'll paraphrase the words of Theodore Geisel, "I do not want them in the box, I do not want them with a fox, I do not want them, 4Ed lovers, now try to change the views of others."
I can't speak for others, but I'm not trying to change anyone's views of 4E when I talk about it. I'm just sharing my opinion.
You're assuming I was defining the term specifically in relation to 4e, which is not the case.
Sorry, again I was only using your analogy and did not mean to imply that that was your view on 4E.