papastebu
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This is gratifying. Thanks. My primary reason for posting on any forum is an attempt to connect with like-minded people on subjects that matter to me.shilsen said:Sure. And they're interesting to read, since I'm always curious to see how other readers see the same subject.
Rethinking the statement, the aggressiveness was what I was pointing to, but I think the only one who was a "shrew" was Nynaeve. Even she has her femininity, though, so I may have been trowel-handed on that opinion. I like the character, except when she's at her nastiest. Then I wish Birgitte would hand her her @$$ as a hat.You know, the one thing I'd never accuse Jordan of is doing the "man in a dress" syndrome, which afflicts too many male writers (and not just in fantasy). I usually find his women very distinct from his men. And he does write a lot of strong women, but unfortunately, for me that's mainly because he has a similar template for them. They're all shrews![]()
Yeop. This is evident in a lot of Nynaeve's interactions with Thom and Jiulin, that I've observed, and I'm sure that it's true elsewhere, as well. The poor woman seems to think that it's her against the world.Agreed. I think that's one of the big factors in his women seeming two-dimensional and a little too similar across the board to me. I think he actually does a better job writing female characters when they're not interacting with men, since he's more likely to treat them in a rounded fashion then and not have them descend into just filling one side in the battle of the sexes.
You are a fortunate man. Ignoring race, age, and the like goes as far as respect does with me, though. If I am getting it, I am giving it, generally based on the individual, but sometimes based on a person's age or gender, given that there is a large gap in either direction for the former, and the other is a woman or girl, for the latter. There is a way to be respectful of those more experienced and still let them know you're angry. The same can be said of respect toward women. Race as a criteria for anger or specific respect does not exist for me, however, and so I default to age and gender to know how to act.That's quite possibly the case. Personally, that's not true of the women I know and have known. Also I've always found it just as easy to understand and communicate with women as men (ironically, a big reason being that I essentially ignore gender when dealing with people, just as I ignore race, age, etc.), so for me his manner of writing them seems even weaker than it might for some others.
I've always been a "do it yourself-er".Well, you want a job done right...