Women venting about men

[Sebastian Francis]

I think myself to be very open minded about men, I have many male friends, in all actuality I think more men then women are closer to me, but I do have one gripe.

Why is it that guys seem to think that I am wholly and unalterably wrong in my sexual choices? I'm a lesbian plan and simple, I told you that so you wouldn't hit on me cause it is pointless, not because I want you to try and prove me wrong. Honestly it just pisses me off and makes me think how right I am to not want to sleep with men in the first place although that was not the issue when I made that choice. Granted this is not all men, none of my male friends push me like this, they may joke that they want threesomes with me and some other chic, but they know that isn't happening either, it is just a way for them to air out their fantasies a bit cause they know I don't mind. But with those that do, and there are a lot I don't see why my saying, "I told you no, I never want to sleep with a man." is not good enough and seems to make them sure that they can change all that. It pisses the hell out of me and on anger issues with others I am VERY laid back. Okay end rant.

I guarantee you guys this statement above was written by a man. No doubt some guy who is getting a kick out of pretending to be a lesbian here on enworld.

Then again...maybe it is a real lesbian. Who knows?

 

[Timeboxer]

Interestingly, as far as sexual identity goes, it seems that for men a lot of sexual identity is hardwired. You were either born gay or not, with very few in a middle range. So far, for women, they haven't found any hardwiring. Unless there is a new discovery, it seems that sexual preference for women is a matter of choice.

Just as an aside -- I believe I read about that study, and I question the validity of their methodology. So.

 

[Timeboxer]

I guarantee you guys this statement above was written by a man.

I must admit: You totally lost all credibility with me the instant you said this.

 

[Lady_Acoma]

Oh, also, for bias-evaluation purposes, I'm a lesbian. (Hi, Lady_Acoma!)

Hi Amy! Missed you over at RH for awhile now, come by and visit again!

 

[Lady_Acoma]

I guarantee you guys this statement above was written by a man. No doubt some guy who is getting a kick out of pretending to be a lesbian here on enworld.

Then again...maybe it is a real lesbian. Who knows?

Wow, sorry you seem to be so hard wired in your views, I have openly posted who and what I am on multiple threads and a few of the people on EN World have met me in person and I have many others that I intend to meet. But if it makes you feel better to believe that I am a guy somehow have fun, I'm not going to stop you, it's not worth my time.

 

[Lady_Acoma]

They are dumb dumb dumb. I'm very good and very close friends with a lesbian couple, we hang out with each other a lot (we have kids the same age too) and people always assume I'm "with" one or the other of them or even "both" of them (this dillusion is sometimes useful ). Guys are constantly pestering me about this stuff and I usually have to point out ....uhhh duhhh... "L E S B I A N S" remember stupid?

Thank you I do have friends like you and I love them. It is just the others that tick me off.

 

[Lady_Acoma]

It's because if you accept defeat then you're not very confident, and we all know how much girls loooooooooooove the confidence! If girls enjoyed politeness and shyness, they wouldn't dare.

I'm Not Looking For Confident Men, I'm Looking For WOMEN! *deep breath* Kay I feel better now, sorry.

 

[d20Dwarf]

Sadly, one thing I've learned about men from past relationships is to never live together until marriage..

This is wonderful advice. Cohabitation before marriage is one of the primary indicators that a marriage will end in divorce. In fact, it's one of the few statistically significant variables.

 

[Timeboxer]

Hi Amy! Missed you over at RH for awhile now, come by and visit again!

Sorry, I got sucked into the evil and utter chaos of the abyss that is Third Quarter of Senior Year. And yet I still haven't graduated. >.>

Though I've been contemplating heading back and apprising everyone of what I've been doing with my life the last three or so months.

 

[Bront]

I guarantee you guys this statement above was written by a man. No doubt some guy who is getting a kick out of pretending to be a lesbian here on enworld.

Then again...maybe it is a real lesbian. Who knows?

Why would you say that? And why is it so hard to believe that there could be a real lesbian (or it appears several) on the board? I'm sure there are some gay guys on the board as well. Who cares? Last I checked, this was a board about an RPG game, not a board about hooking up and other people's sexuality. I say, as a hetrosexual male, who the hell here cares? I game, I have fun, and I try to help others here have fun. And when I RP a character here, does it realy matter the sex or orientation (West at the moment if you care) of the player behind the keyboard?

Sorry, but calling people out as "not what they say they are" is right up there with judging others by their sexuality and dismissing people as "trolls" when they express a controversial point (which I've seen several members do as well, and strangely threads go downhill shortly after that. Makes you wonder who's trolling...).