My list is much smaller - based on my finances
Draconomicon - yes I am running 1 campaign, and plan on starting a second based on the notes that I copied out of this book, Dungeon# 100 and occasionally borrowing it from a player. I keep thinking its such a great book - but I do have 2 pages of notes..... and even if I owned it I would'nt use everything ...
Complete Adventurer - It sounds good, but I havn't perused it enough.
DMG II -must have, may buy on sight will delay if reviews are terrible.
Beyond Countless Doorways PDF. I just cant justify the 30+ for the hardback, as I dont have anything planned for the outer planes. Even if I did there are 3 newbies in my group who have only been to the plane of shadow and a (modified) ethereal - I should really take them to the Abyss or the Hells.
I prolly buy only 3-4 books a year so so I have to make careful choices.