1. Fiendish Codex I - And absolutely awesome resource for the demon-heavy campaigns that I run. Great monsters, great flavor, awesome all around.
2. PHBII - Best. Crunch Book. Evar. Gives a much needed boost to high level fighters, retraining is pretty cool too
3. Lords of Madness - Excellent reading, good monsters, great fluff.
4. Complete Adventurer - It gets used pretty much all the time
5. Fiendish Codex II - Not as good as FCI, but still a nice resource
6. Tome of Magic - Great art, great ideas, questionable execution
7. Expanded Psionics Handbook - Psionics finally done right
8. Unearthed Arcana - Great source to mine ideas to modify your homebrew, not used that often though
9. Draconomicon - Fun to read primarily
10. Magic Item Compendium - Good resource, though the layout could use some work and I'm not entirely sold on the repricing thing
Honorable Mention: Tome of Battle - Gets HM just for being a really cool system whether or not its overpowered or underpowered